What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and existence, without a basic form and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with respect for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The effect is often a fantastic physical, mental wellness. Generally, the receiver is very relaxed, splendidly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The hands of the provider are linked with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not believe about the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. A very conscious touch from the heart. Receive likewise extremely consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Whatever occurs in the moment, in complete awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the technique or the preferred series of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore typically take an extremely surprising course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not always need to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the initial step in a great development.
The best ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, however because the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear borders in advance
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise needed (check out the article on safeguarding boundaries. So believe in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a correct consumption, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about psychological borders, as well as make sure for clearness about physical borders. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise totally okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage ought to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, however you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ production/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), but usually, that is a process in time. Tantra knows various techniques to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, in some cases scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd offering a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and methods in common. There is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (focused on recovery).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, however of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are really incredibly energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are really exhausted), you are really alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a kind of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage certainly has recovery effects, but that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stick out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, but likewise psychologically).
* Make clear arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need free, do not press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about what they themselves discover pleasant, enjoyable, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own problems and above all ... do not try to force anything. Nothing has actually to be done, nothing is required! Again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It his explanation is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Possibly you are disappointed when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. Nevertheless, understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide combination moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not rush towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover exactly what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers an incredibly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).